So I've noticed in the past year that I've made a drastic change on how I see the dating world and relationships and just wondering if anyone has gone through the same thing and if this is just a phase. Ever since I can remember all I've wanted was a relationship and that's what has always been my goal when it comes to dating, I wouldn't have cared if we dated for months until we had sex.
Now though all I want is to bang and nothing more. I do not want a relationship the slightest bit. All I'm after is sex. The more sex the better. This is a huge surprise to me because I've always been super conservative until last year. It feels like I've really come out of my sexual shell. Please save your mean comments, I'm always honest with the women I'm seeing and make sure they know that I'm not after a relationship, just dating and having as much fun as possible.
Most Helpful Girl
I've changed so much throughout my relationship. I started incredibly naive, almost scared of sex. Super unsure of myself, incredibly self conscious, mistrusting... all those good things.
Now I'm much more confident. Still a streak of unsureness but I'm working on it. Sex is obviously a pretty big part of my life now. But I still see how I care about him, emotionally, how a night spent cuddling can be just as fun, if not more than a night of sex. There have been times when sex was all I wanted from him, more or less. He accused me of using him as a dildo, for sex, (jokingly... we're weird like that). Which is quite contradictory to when I first got with him and warned that he better not make it all about sex! :P
So overall, I guess my views on dating have changed more like matured. As a person, I feel like I've become much more patient for sure. Tolerant of other people's differences, when I had to deal with his and realize I either deal with it, or lose him?0
Most Helpful Guy
I feel ya bro iv been trough several heartbreaks and i dont know how am i supposed to let anyone in... And yeah sexual desire is what drives us iv been trough everything cheated on and lied a lot... Iv been acused of cheating and got cheated in return even been acused of rapeist how psichic can girls get theese days? Anyway we all change but its cool how u are straight forward with your parners maybe u will eventually fall in again but uxpect that maybe she won't see you the same anymore and loose her1