The only attention I get is guys asking me to give them advice how to get the girl they want. Of course I give them advice. Then I'm thanked for being such a good friend. Yeah got it. When I do get male attention its about one thing... They get it nd don't hear from them again. I used to be very skinny nd fit, even after having kids. I had guys wanting to be with me even though I had kids. Then I got sick and gained weight... Since then nothing. Now with getting divorced I feel like I will be alone the rest of my life. I'm just the friend always now. Even my soon to be ex never really took me on a date. I've never been on. True date. I'm in my mid 20s. I feel frumpy and gross with having all my Male friends coming go me for advice to get another girl... I'm always just the friend. Is this how my life will be?
Most Helpful Guy
We have no idea what you look like, so we could not answer if you are too fat or ugly. But I suspect the answer to both is no. The way you look at yourself makes a big impression on guys. If you are confidant and happy you will attract men.
Right now people know you are going through a divorce, so for right now you are married. And it is expected that you will not run right out and date as soon as the divorce is final. But let it be known that you are ready to move on. Look at the positive sides of yourself and make sure others see them, too.
Once you improve your feelings about yourself and get on with your life, you should see improvements. But remember that as you are now older than when you married and romance is a little harder and slower. But that is not because of you.
Believe your friends. I have not seen you but I believe them. You are beautiful.1
Most Helpful Girl
Probably because you look unhappy and you're not in the best mood right now. Typically speaking, people are attracted by happy, joyful people.1