When should I have sex? I've been wanting it for a while and all but I'm scared my boyfriend will judge what I look like under a bra and underwear. I'm scared its gonna hurt. I'm scared my cherry will pop and blood will be everywhere ugh I'm just scared.
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He pretty much has an idea of how you look naked, so he's not gonna be disappointed or anything like that, don't even think about it, it's not gonna do you any good.
You may bleed, but it's not something that will come out as a fountain, just a little bit, but if you've masturbated before, then you already have the "cherry" popped.
The first thing you gotta do in order for it to not hurt, is freaking relax. I got nervous just by reading your question, I can't even imagine how you're feeling xD Being nervous during sex will only contract your muscles, making it more difficult for the penis to go inside, and therefore it will hurt you. Just relax, it's your boyfriend, you trust him, you enjoy him, so there's no reason to be nervous.
Foreplay is key here, take your time, get very wet, enjoy the moment. When it's the time to put the penis inside, use lube, it's not necessary, but it can make it easier just in case you're not wet enough.
Take it slow, what you say, goes, he has to understand that.
Just enjoy, seriously, the more nervous you are, the worse it'll be. Get rid of that fear that you have.4