I don't get how someone showing a lot of affection and adoration can be a turn off, instead of a turn on. Please explain.
Most Helpful Girl
People don't want someone who doesn't let them breathe. Plus, imagine someone who you are not attracted in chasing you all the damn time. It's annoying isn't it?0
Most Helpful Guy
There needs to be some sort of medium. Relationships can be pretty difficult in some aspects because people within them seek two things which are contradictions. People seek closeness in relationships, while at the same time seeking isolation. When a person shows too much affection it is seen as being clingy and people don't like that because we all want our space so we can collect our own thoughts. However, if a person don't show enough affection or is too isolated then that leaves room for cheating or frequent arguing.
Moral of the story, is that "Too much of something isn't always a good thing". You need to find that middle ground between being close and distant.0