Hi! Pls helppp
I'm a 19 year old girl, meeting the guy of my dreams that I have been talking to for almost 4 months on Facebook (mutual friend) Problem is, he is the muscular type whereas I love fitness too but I'm fat...
We have webcammed but he's only seen my face :/
Ps I am 166 cm and 61kgs.. I am motivated to lose weight though! :D
Apparently guys are all physical creatures and they care a lot about weight :(
helpppppp! Thoughts please? Should I be worried?
Most Helpful Guy
What the girl said here in the opinions in not entirely correct. She generalises men and that is very annoying. Everyone is a physical creature not just men, women are to. At the very start of seeing a person looks is all anyone has to go on until you get to know the persons character. There are some women that care about looks more than some men do and some men that care about looks more than some women. You can't say one entire gender is one way or the other. Anyway 166 cm and 61 kg is not fat. So I would not worry about it too much.0
Most Helpful Girl
I know it can be hard to lose weight at times. I'm around 54kg and at 158cm. So we are probably the same size? LOL. But here's what, I'm already on my way of losing weight, I was actually at 59kg, but with proportionate eating, I've been progressing. Healthy losing weight would be losing 2kg a week? Sometimes your weight might go up a little, but that's okay, it'll go down soon after. Just don't get so upset over that little increase of weight and go binge eat or something haha, it's part of the process, just continue doing what you have been doing (which is not to starve yourself or overeating) and your body will understand you and lose weight. Just give it something time and I believe that you can and will lose that fat and weight :)
Oh and yes. Guys do care... unfortunately.0