Me and my mother got in an argument because I said I have to be attracted to a girl before I date her. I told her I want a girl who is smart, has a nice personality, and is attractive. But she said if she is attractive she must have no brains and she would only date a guy for his money and use him. I told her that is ridiculous. She said that if my dad had standards he would not have dated her so I should be the same as him. like I said I care about brains and personality but I also care about how she looks.
Most Helpful Girl
Obviously this is really subjective. But I agree with you. Everyone is attracted to different appearances and physical qualities. It's hard to get really into someone w/o that initial "spark" and usually that spark comes from being physically attracted to someone! Doesn't mean you don't care about their OTHER qualities!0
Most Helpful Guy
In this case your mother is wrong, and there is nothing wrong with having standards and those are 3 very simple ones that won't be to terribly hard to find.0