For the first time ever I recently slept with a girl on the first date and it now feels like I can never go back to, lets wait until the 3rd date or just a kiss on the first date. The truth is that you know if you want to sleep together within the first 10min of the first date. I feel so much closer to this woman so much sooner than all my other previous dates and it just feels so much more natural. I mean I'm going on a date to test drive this person so to speak. So if we really click why not test drive how sexually compatible we are?
- Have done it, good ideaVote A
- Have done it, bad ideaVote B
- Have never done it, would do itVote C
- Have never done it and don't plan on ever doing itVote D
- See resultsVote E
Most Helpful Girl
I don't consider it good or bad, it's just up to the people involved and how they want to go about it.
Personally, I'm not comfortable sleeping with someone on the first date. I can be very attracted to a guy, and we can click perfectly, but if the level of trust, familiarity, and care isn't established yet, which it can't really be on the first date if we've just met, since those things take time, then it feels too soon to be that intimate with the person. I wouldn't feel ready to take part in it no matter how much I like the guy.4
Most Helpful Guy
Generally girls lie about their past but realistically Id say like most girls have had sex on the first date before. So if a girl was making me wait a month I'd just feel like I wasn't as attractive as the guys who she slept with sooner. Id wonder "why was she so excited to sleep with that guy she met at the club and for me i have to wait a month?"
So I'd prefer sooner rather than later. I'd want to make sure she's clean of stds first so maybe within the first week of dating would be ideal for me.
The guys they sleep with right away are the guys they are excited to have sex with. The guys who have to wait months are the ones they are only kinda attracted to.
Id prefer to be in the group of guys who she was MOST excited to sleep with.2