I am an 18 yr old girl and I really like older men in their 30s to 50s.
I am very sensitive, affectionate, loving, empathetic, neurotic, sincere, eager to please and expressive. I am often told that I am beautiful and pretty too.
However, I feel like my sensitive and gentle nature could make older men assume I would be too clingy or TOO needy of physical affection - and that the majority of men would be afraid that they are taking advantage of my emotions, no matter if I consent. ALL because of my age.
I really thought men would appreciate my loving nature but I feel very unappreciated.
What do you all think?
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I am 31, so I thought I'd chime in, since I'm in the age bracket that you specified.
I actually prefer women like you described. Caring, affectionate, open, etc; those are all qualities that I appreciate in a partner. There is something nice about knowing a girl wants to be with you, and tells you how she feels. It's great to feel needed/wanted in a relationship. Much better than a girl who takes your presence for granted.
That being said, though, I do believe there's such a thing as too much. The above qualities don't make a girl "clingy". If she's texting me at all hours, wondering why I didn't respond to the text that she sent five minutes ago, or wondering if I'm cheating on her any time I talk to a female friend; well, then we'd have an issue.1
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