I have had to start work 50+ hours a week to make up for his unemployment. He won't settle for just any job because he thinks he is worth more money than these jobs have to offer. So we are financially struggling off my income alone.
However, when I get home and have my one day off out of the week, he will say things like "All the laundry needs to be folded once you get a minute", or "What are you cooking for dinner tonight?" (Even though he never Haas dinner ready when I get home at 6:30-7pm so I make dinner every night). He will sit around and do nothing but play on Facebook all day or write his "music". He will also try and keep me up all hours when he knows I am exhausted from work or have to get up early to pull a double the next morning. I'm feeling like he only cares about himself and his laziness is becoming very unsettling. He leaves his dishes and empty soda bottles everywhere. He will get undressed and leave a trail of his dirty clothes strewn throughout the house that I have to pick up. He will ask me for money for stupid shit that we really can't afford (deer feed, lawn mower parts even though we have 3 perfectly running lawnmowers, socks- even though we have a whole basket that he refuses to match up and he won't wear mismatch, etc). I feel like I have a child running around!! I work 6 days a week on the weeks that I pull doubles which is just about every other week and he doesn't do absolutely anything, yet expects me to cook, clean and take care of him on my only days off when he doesn't do shit for me.
Most Helpful Guy
He has gotten used to being a bum. Get him a job asap or tell him to pack his bags. You have become the breadwinner, maid, cook and sex slave for him. Ultimatum time.1
Most Helpful Girl
You need to tell him that if he wants to live wth you together he either needs to find a job any job that will pay him to release all the stress and tension from you or do all the laundry, cleaning, cooking and it will help make up for his umemployment at the moment. If he complains and says no you knock him in the head with your shoe and kick him out for the night and see what happens lol but seriously tell him to help out more.1