Its not as simple as it sounds, this guy and my girl used to date a few months ago but it "didn't work out" so they stayed as "friends" now this guy knows she is my girl and still invites her while leaving me out.
Now my girlfriend wants to go cuz they are "Friends" and she can't just not go. I will let her go since I made it clear that i hate overprotective releationships and now i am paying the price.
this bothers me so much any advice?
(he is still single.)
Most Helpful Girl
she should want to bring you with her, for one.
secondly, she shouldn't want to go hang out with her ex.
thirdly, HE obviously has no respect for ur relationship or he woulda invited you. so who knows what shady stuff he'll pull when ur not around.
let her know how you feel. if she still goes then you should probably reevaluate ur relationship with her. that is just shady.2
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Most Helpful Guy
Oh hell no, the fact that she is trying to go even though you are not invited is a huge red flag. Imagine if your female friend invited you to a party but said that your girlfriend couldnt come youd probably laugh at her face, or say that if your girlfriend can't come then you're not coming either. This has nothing to do with being overprotective, this has to do with the type of relationship you have. I would honestly ask her what the fuck is she thinking, the whole thing is absolutely ridiculous and she should have refused immediately when she heard that you couldnt come there.0