I'm 19 years old, and i've never been on a date. I was asked out once four years ago, when i was 15, but at the time i had just started the school and was under a lot of stress so didn't want to date, along with the fact i wasn't at all attracted to the guy. However, ever since, i have never even been approached. I'm not desperate like some people are, but its just getting to the point where everyone i know has been in a relationship/dating compared to when i was 15. I just want to experience it, because for some reason it makes me feel immature or like a child. Its a point in my life i want to feel like an adult, and the fact i've never even been on a date just seems weird... and i just can't approach guys, cause a lot of guys dont even like that and i'm super shy so it wouldn't work. I dont think i'm ugly, i've never been confident due to personal issues i had at school, but i've been told i'm really pretty or boys have fancied me apparently in the past. Guys have whistled me on the streets but no guy has ever asked me out since. is there a reason? Am i ugly? Something about me that makes me unapproachable?
19, never been kissed or even on a date. I'm not desperate, but I would just like to experience it?
What Guys Said 3
Well you have not been on a date or anything so you probably just need that little confidence boost to just get out there and make it happen. And I don't think most guys would care if you've not been on a date, as it's not a big deal. As for being shy, some guys will find it sweet. So just go out and have fun, and a guy will eventually come along.0
Same. Let's date.0
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