After how many dates or sleep overs do you consider him/ her your bf/gf?
until he/she officially asks you?
Most Helpful Guy
With my first girlfriend I'll probably just end up asking. I can't figure out that cryptic shit.0
Most Helpful Girl
For us, it wasn't based on how many dates or sleepovers but maybe also cos it's a bit different for us since we're in a long-distance relationship.
After having met online, we talked for a whole month before meeting in person for the first time. During that one month, we established a really strong (emotional) connection and it was during the second week of talking to each other that he decided to fly out to meet me and that we were gonna be exclusive :)
So, it actually really depends on the relationship that you're in and when/how that talk about being official/exclusive comes about, and not so much how many dates or sleepovers.0