I went to a Halloween party yesterday and I was having a conversation with a few friends. My boyfriend came over as I said I wasn't planning on dating in college because the extensive level of stress relationships bring (particullarly Long distance ones) and how important college is. When I told him this he began to get upset and emotional. At this point if our point of views are so different I feel like I should break up with him.
This makes me sound terrible but hear me out. He has mentioned to me several times that he would abandon his dream school to go to school with me. This freaked me out and I instantly shot the idea down because he is smart and will go very far at the school he got into with lots of aid.
Is it wrong of me for wanting to break up? This seems like a huge problem if it is left untouched.
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Wow, do you really have no sympathy? Sounds to me like he was wishing to be together with you for a long time, maybe even get more serious in the future, then he hears you say that you are gonna basically dump him when you go to college, of course thats gonna fucking devastate him. Im not sure how long you have been dating but stuff like that should usually be discussed pretty early in the relationship so that stuff like this doesn't happen.
Anyway I think you need to talk to him about it if he wants to keep dating you until you part ways when you go to college, or would he rather not "waste" his time on a relationship thats not going anywhere.0
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