It's a question that's been on my mind for a while. I'm 27 years old and I've never been on a date before. I've also never had sex or kissed anyone before.
For those of you wondering why, well... it's a bit of a long story with immigrant parents, different cultures, strict rules growing up, etc.
I want to get out there and start dating but I do wonder, how forthcoming should I be with this information? I think it would be nice to say something since it would lower my anxiety and it would be nice to not have to put on a show to impress a woman. Having said that, I realize it's unusual for a man at this point in life and I don't want to scare women off. Also I can understand that nervous fumbling at this age can be a turn-off.
My mind is a bit tired thinking about this so much. That's why I've come here to this forum, I need your guidance!
Most Helpful Girl
i would not disclose that information until you have the lady's complete trust... that would be a while
meanwhile i would focus on being confident and on being a great date - someone who is confident, certain, great listener, flirts a little, etc.
... and if you're curious enough about sex before doing the deed, there is surprisingly a lot of online articles and books about 'how to have sex', lol. nothing is left untouched these days.0
Most Helpful Guy
You always have to put on a show to impress a woman. People will down vote me on this - but it IS true.
I don't think you should say anything. Talking to girls these days - even the EXPERIENCED guys suck at dating technique... your dates likely will not notice.
And besides - you're in the US and you need to start learning how to "fake it", brother. It's the national pastime! LOL0