How do I attract the nice guys?

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How do I attract the nice loyal guys? I'm sick of dealing with jerks

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How do I attract the nice guys?

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tony72722
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You don't want nice guy. The nice guy is that awkward dude that keeps telling you that you are beautiful. But you choose brad because he is genetically superior and can act like a dick and get away with it. You are biologically wired to be attracted to brad
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- Missyx
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  There's a difference between a genuinely nice guy and a push over who's main goal is to suck up to you..
  
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- tony72722
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  Yeah but you would still choose brad because he is a challenge.
  
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- Missyx
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  There's my problem.
  
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- tony72722
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  Lol exactly. I've had to many girls cheat on their boyfriends with me to ever take this nice guy shit seriously.
  
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- Missyx
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  The thing is though I don't want to date a guy who just wants to sleep with every girl he meets for once it'd be nice not to be cheated. That's why I was trying to go the other way
  
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- tony72722
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  It's not going to happen right now you are 18 maybe after college and what not. Honestly you're just going to go where you are attracted to. Hormones x9000 right now.
  
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- Missyx
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  Fair enough
  
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- Beaver19
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  Boy tony can you say full of your own shit, haha, there's plenty of succesful guys who have confidence and know their worth who STILL tell a girl she's beautiful and are mature enough to stay loyal to her, and guess what those guys (myself included) still have out girl with us and not some pomp self labeled douche like yourself.
  
  Asked ultimately there are nice/decent guys who want something legit and are not pushover shy guys, yeah we may not make retarded life choices like tiny tony up there but we aren't the type to bow down to a girl either, some nice guys are just too shy to say something, but don't buy into this guys 'hormones' shit, he's just too upset his are in dissaray from all the steroids and energy drinks he takes for being so great
  
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- Beaver19
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  Asker* not asked,
  
  And genetic superiority is a myth in terms of attraction, my father had a terrible case of rheumatoid arthritus as a child disorder that's 'bad' genes if there ever was some, yet he was a freaking stud at attracting girls in his time, although he took it much more seriously than guys like this commenter, he certainly had no shortage of options.
  
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- ElvenMr
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  How the F that is the most helpful answer...
  
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- Lonewolf_1296
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  How the fuck did this shitty pseudo "scientifically based" rant become the best answer?
  
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- tony72722
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  Lol look at all the 'nice guys' getting butthurt. She choose most helpful because she knows I'm right. If you guys are sexual repressed than stop being stubborn and take it from a guy whos actually gets laid. That nice guy shit will not work right now at our young age. Goodluck with your virginity goals of 2016.
  
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- tony72722
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  @Beaver19 Nsteroids. No energy drinks. I'm an athlete. I take steroid accusations. complementary though. You're just saying I look big and masculine. So much that you think I'm using an illegal anabolic subtance such as steroids. So thank you.. makin me feel all warm n fuzzy inside. Don't bother with a rebutal because I'm not responding.
  
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- Missyx
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  I made his answer the most helpful one because I thought he was being extremely honest and blunt with me. To a certain degree I understood what he was saying but he was in the end most helpful. If one of you guys commented sooner with better options then maybe you would've been chosen
  
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- Beaver19
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  That's why I commented to let you know there are genuinely good guys who would treat you right while not letting you trample them, I'm not doing this for MHO or anything like that, guys like tiny dick tony up there are the Barbie doll types of guys, all they care about are their own aesthetics and egos, a man is about more than that, and the fact he slept with girls who had boyfriends shows he really doesn't deserve the air he breathes. Guys like him or 'brad' as he puts it do everything for their egos and bragging rights, he brought up weightlifting and took my steroid comment as a compliment can you say concieted? I skydive and am one of the youngest in my state, I've had several offers for friends with benefit type deals due to the publicity I get for it at my college and newspapers but I turned all those girls down as I only need one, and while Id give all to the one she wouldn't trample me it'd be a loving deal, I posted so you no not all good guys are basement dwellers, or geeks
  
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- Beaver19
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  (Continued) and that we are out here amongst a pathetic sea of guys like tony up there, so overall to attack a good guy, take care of yourself have passions, want something real and avoid people like tony, real men don't need to boast achievements, they live by their acts, guys like Tony or "brad"? They aren't even men, they are just spoiled little boys.
  
  Good luck finding a good man who'll love you asker, I hope I helped some.
  
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- Beaver19
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  Attract* not attack haha
  
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What Guys Said 12

TheBraveLion
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https://i.imgflip.com/tmhe6.jpg

But really those guys are everywhere.
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- Missyx
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  That's adorable
  
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- TheBraveLion
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  Hehe >.<
  
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Christopherson
4 Xper mho 6%

A lot of guys are nice and loyal, but that isn't seen as instantly attractive to girls. Whereas jerks are majorly confident so you notice them. I'm not talking about the nice guy fedora wearing self entitled dweebs, they still fit into the jerk category.
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Nik1hil
Guru mho 11%

Starts by picking the guys in your friendzone, cause nice guys are willing to be friends cause they know, they can take your care in lot better way being your friends then being you fuck buddy or careless boyfriends
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Octavius
Guru mho 13%

Go volunteer. They aren't guaranteed to be great guys but the chances of him not being a total douche are astronomically higher than if you go hunting for a guy at a bar or club.
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- Missyx
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  I do volunteer regularly I don't enjoy clubs or bars all tht much so I'm trying haha
  
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hotstuffSRD
Guru mho 7%

I guess I'm a nice guy 😂
LOL 😁 jk 😜
Ummm just wait for him or talk with every guy including me 😂 to find your type of nice guy 😉
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Shyguy_1988
9 Xper mho 8%

I'm a nice guy try to attract me! What do you look like? Hahahahaha, but seriously, I am a nice person.
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- Jklmnop
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  Cool bro.
  
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Lonewolf_1296
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OP, is from girls treating shitty advice like gold that men lose faith in women.
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- Lonewolf_1296
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  And call you dumb.
  
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ElvenMr
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I have recently answered this to another girl, kind of with the same problem, here it is:

Sounds like you are "too" attractive, so you are hard to approach to a lot of (nice) guys.

One thing you could try is, put on less intimidating clothes by that i mean dress like you wouldn't otherwise, so you could wear some really silly color combinations, combine clothes you would not otherwies, something like that. Mess up your hair a bit, try to look more nice, than hot, but if you try the following, you can be the hottest one, and still being asked out etc.

It's maybe the way you behave, try being silly, joke around with the boys too (don't be offensive ofc), talk to them, don't talk just to your girlfriends. This way they'll be more comfortable around you/easier to talk or approachable.
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rthomas43
Guru mho 15%

Look at your bait, there's your answer.
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kartoos
8 Xper mho 7%

Depends what's your definition of a nice guy!
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Anonymous

Your goal should be to attract as many men as possible. If you have tons of options it is easier to get a good one.
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Anonymous

You're not going to attract a nice guy with a profile pic like that lol.
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What Girls Said 3

cleverlemon
4 Xper mho 17%

super simple: your priority should be YOU. be up front about the things you want. be prepared to walk away if he doesn't give you the love and respect that you want. don't delude yourself into thinking that someone can be fixed. and above all, remember that no matter HOW good the sex is, or how much you try to please him, you cannot make him love you. so make him work for it.

https://cleverlemon.me/
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I-love-people
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nice guys are not asshole, so you shouldnbe an asshole too. but Im not sure if you are good or asshole
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teawrecks
Guru mho 15%

Be a nice loyal girl? I don't know, nice guys don't interest me. They're boring.
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