i come from a dysfunctional family, parents divorced early, dad kicked us out, abandonment issues etc. which lead to me in dysfunctional drama filled relationships until this one.
this guy is so so wonderful and treats me really well but his ex broke up with him for someone else years back and he got deeply depressed. I'm getting irrationally jealous and keep thinking, I've never been in any sort of a real relationship and he had it with some girl and I just get this horrible feeling inside which makes me want to run away and end this before I fall for him harder than I already have. Also, he became an alcoholic after her and I feel like he still drinks a lot and isn't over her at all.
What at do I do?
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That's what love is it's taking a risk, letting yourself be vulnerable enough for someone to love you from the outside in. Talk about it, don't accuse just talk about it, and don't overwhelm yourself, it's a new relationship give it time to sink in x1