Most Helpful Girl
I find shy guys tend not to be open about how they feel. I never know if they are attracted to me or not. They leave me feeling confused and full of doubt about their intentions , due to not disclosing their true feelings. I need to know where i stand with a guy, but i never know with a shy guy.
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Most Helpful Guy
Girls like confidence more than anything else. Shyness shows a lack of confidence so is a huge turn off. Dating is a competition and is never fair. It's a competition with few rules. The guy who gets and keeps the girl wins, there's no 2nd place ribbon. Sometimes that means hitting the competition where it hurts. There's no giving people who don't understand this a chance.
Understand you are trying to win a competition, a competition where shyness means you lose, so overcome that shyness rather than accepting it, and you'll eventually win. Continue being shy and you'll always get beaten by the first confident guy who comes along. That's just how it works.