Most Helpful Guy
Old fashioned and disempowering. It removes a woman's sense of agency and puts them in a position where they have to compete against other women to try and 'win' the affection of a man, who can then proceed to pick and choose from amongst the presented options.
It is hard to ask someone out because you run the risk of rejection. That is true for all genders. But if you do not take control of your life and go after the things you want, you are left on the bench pining over missed opportunities and letting others dictate the flow of your life and the source of your own personal happiness. A person needs to take control of their own personal happiness, and pursue those opportunities instead of letting them slip away. Yes, there will be rejection, but it will let you live a life without regret, because you know you'll have done what you can, you know you'll have given it your best shot.
Far from the truth, unless by truth you mean 'a way for men to control the happiness of women instead of letting them pursue their own happiness on equal grounds'. But I don't think that's the definition of truth that anyone uses ;)
Most Helpful Girl
but recently a lot of girls have been asking out guys
many people dissaprove of it but its like a thing where girls can take control too!
whatever floats your boat!
hipe this helps!