I would like some input on this,
I think I am fairly attractive (i don't mean to sound concieted), guy friends have told me I'm cute/pretty even beautiful. I've been told I have a great personality, I am funny, witty, somewhat of a nerd, some guys are shocked of how many guy related stuff I know and have been told I'm the funniest girl they've met. My outfits are considered to be "Dressed up" when I go to uni and I keep good hygine.
Guys talk to me in general (most just stare), I am complimented but it never gets further than that. the men that I've dated, one I met in school others all from online dating said the same thing, that' I'm really attractive, I have a great personality, they've never had chemistry with someone like me, etc... I just don't get why I don't get approached in real life then? Or in class?
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Same thing as me, I don't think I'm all too bad looking but I can be a bit intimidating. I have bad posture which means I slouch a lot and it looks like I'm always disinterested because I also cross my arms a lot. Body language is so important. It may also depend who you're hanging out with as some guys might only want to approach you if you're alone for fear of rejection. I
Just keep your back straight and try not to cover your body with your arms (you look less inviting that way), keep your head up and smile shyly if you see a guy staring at you (it may give him the confidence to come and talk to you). Guys love confidence in a girl so speak when conversing in groups. Hope this helps0