we are 20, in college. We met a couple weeks ago.. I approached him; he was friendly back. It wasn't flirting, but it was all just friendly and nice and he said we should have coffee. So a few days later we did. He was very personable and we had a good time. I felt sparks, real sparks. And I sensed him flirting with me a couple of times. And he did say that next time we hang out he should show me this one thing. I mean, I thought he was totally digging me.
then this week, he went out of state for a concert that was on Wednesday. I messaged him on Facebook on Monday, wishing him a good trip and he'll have to tell me about it afterwards! And then.. He read it on Monday, but never responded. I don't know when he left to go out of state or when he's coming back. But yeah.. This morning he uploaded a bunch of photos of the concert on Facebook and I just feel super rejected. He's had time to go on Facebook. I see him online multiple times. It says he read my message. I just feel really rejected and hurt because he was so friendly.
Whats going on?
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He's either not that into you, or there's more to his life than he told you. Don't send any more messages or like his posts. If 3 months go by and he hasn't reached out to you, delete him. If you have any confidence and self respect at all, delete him after no contact for a month. But move on now as if he doesn't exist for you. Nothing is more pathetic than a smart girl who leaves a door open for a guy.