We are both 20 and hit it off soon as we met, this round a year ago now. He told me he doesn't get in relationships because they change people (I think is because he got hurt badly in the past more than once) so we agreed to date and see how we go. I fell pretty quickly for him. We fell out as he would flirt with other girls I front of me and didn't speak for a month, during This time he slept with two other girls, we met up and he told me he wanted to be in a relationship with me, I told him I didn't think that was what he wanted as he is young and want to play around, we agreed to get together though as he reassured me its what he wanted. We started off fine texting all the time, didn't see was other because we had uni, he became off with me and stopped talking to me for two weeks, I asked him what was wrong and he told me he couldn't make time for me and I deserved better (over text), I later found out he had dropped me for another girl (same girl he slept with before). by the way I did not ever sleep with this guy as he would have to wait for that. We did not see or speak to each other for 6 months, we went on a work night out however and ended up kissing, I was very affectionate but he started to become distant and told me he couldn't handle relationships. He told my friend that he likes me but doesn't know how to show me. He then tried to kiss her in front of me, asked her out on dates a few days later and they went out a few times, she stayed at his house also (she is no longer my friend after her shite behaviour). All this time I had no contact with him. He messaged me saying sorry for everything and that I deserve so much better then when I questioned what he was sorry for, denied all the shit things he had done ( dropping me for someone else, trying to kiss my friend). i avoid having contact with him but he provoked an argument with me over nothing so I blocked him for all social media. I love him but I know I deserve better , so why won't he leave me alone?&
Most Helpful Guy
Well you are crazy for waiting around for something like that. You definitely deserve something so much better than that. Is not ok to be doing that if someone wants a relationship with somebody. A relationship is between two not more than too.0THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
He wants to test drive you like the others.
He's predending to be a buyer
and they are thinking they might make The Sale
but he's just satisfying his dick.
The End - there's really no more to this guy, even though he talks a most convincing game.
You are the one that got away, so he'll keep plugging until there are dire consequences to him for trying. Better install some of these, e. g. muscle bound boyfriend (or friend that would pose as such) or group of friends or classmates (e. g. dance class) where they all know what a jerk he is, so will defend you and insult him away.1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE