I'm talking about a girl who went on a few dates, seemed like there was some spark/connection, things were going well, for whatever reason she starts to flake becomes harder set things up with etc. I take the hint and leave her alone, delete her number so I don't get tempted. Then a month + later she'll reach out saying "it's been a long time and how are you?"
It's strange because it's been a long time because she blew off our last date and never got back to me when I invited her to some other thing. Why would a girl who was obviously not interested take the time to reach out after that?
I'm really curious what's going on in the female brain here, thanks!