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Of course guys will still love you. The truth is they would care about YOU! They'd want to help you find out what the problem is and to help put it right.
Self harming is pointless, though. It does not resolve the basic problem. You have to ask yourself what is wrong, and BE HONEST with yourself. Then you can examine ways to put it right. ENlist the help of close friends, as well. They will always be on your side.