My boyfriend is depressed and sick all the time. I'm always there to comfort him. There will be days where he is fine and the next day he won't be. He always used to give me attention and affection, no matter how he felt, but now I rarely get anything from him now. I think it might be the new medication that he is taking. He was still giving me a lot of attention until a week ago after our fight, but now I think he hates me and doesn't know that he does. But even so I'm always there to help him with his pain. I know that it's mostly the depression but I can't help but think that he doesn't love me anymore and I think it's taking a toll on me.
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You need to start thinking of yourself. Whatever his degree of depression is, he has to ultimately help himself. He needs to snap out of it, a hundred years ago people either did that or they didn't survive. Quite the incentive. You babying him won't help either him, or yourself. I know I seem insensitive, your 26 years old, do you want to be 36 and realize you spent ten years of your life without realizing it. It goes faster than you think. Put yourself first, no one else will!1