Girls do this too of course but this is my situation. I just wonder.. When I date someone I tend to focus on that person only especially if I like him, which in this case I did. He was not open about it, I found out although I'm not sure if they had as close connection as we had but he slept with one of them while dating me and who knows if he slept with others as well. So even though he puts a lot of time and effort on me, goes around and introduce me to his friends, he does what he did? In my mind it just doesn't makes sense. I got to hear some rumors that he is a type of guy who talks to a lot of girls at the same time so despite that he was a really great guy and I really mean it. I didn't want to have to deal with drama or be one of those girls so I broke up our dating and he seems to have taken it hard unless I just bruised his ego. I figured I might end up getting hurt sooner or later but he still sends a text and checks up on me sometimes?
Most Helpful Guy
You are looking to have an exclusive relationship, he isn't. If neither of you wants to change their mind go your separate ways.
A lot of women are attracted to guys who have lots of girls interested in them, it's a kind of bandwagon effect, it makes the guy seem more attractive but it's an illusion.1
Most Helpful Girl
if i was you i would break up with him too, dating multiple girls at the same time, what new crap is that?1