For example, you go out with him and his friends, first time meeting each other, his parents are friends with some of your family friends so he is showing you around the town. Anyways that night you end up going home with him and then spend the next half day in bed together. Then the next night he invites you back out and you end up going home with him again. Then he takes you too his favorite coffee shop... we live in diffrent cities so nothing will probably come of it. Still he said he might come visit me sometime and mentioned multiple times that I should come back to visit. Also th next night when we were out with his friends he would hold my hand or put his arm around me, kiss me on the cheek, or just kiss me.
He probably just had a fun time and is a nice guy. I just feel like most guys dont really want to hold your hand or have any pda if you've just slept together.
ALSO how much do guys like to cuddle, maybe its just the guys I get with but I feel like if its just sex they aren't big cuddlers after. I realize I am totally over thinking a situation of something that will never happen... just wondering!
Most Helpful Guy
Well whether they have sex the first time we go out is neither here nor there. A lot of my girlfriends did, some didn't. I always assume a girl wants a relationship unless she says otherwise upfront so I don't take a girl to bed unless I want to give that a try with her too. I've turned down a lot of women because I just couldn't see a relationship working out even though it would have been fun just to have sex. Most guys will take it if it's on offer though.
Most Helpful Girl
I would say it depends on the guy.