Is this a huge red flag or what?
He was very straightforward and confessed this to me in the first date. I think that's a good thing... but doesn't erase what he did...
Would you give a chance or is this a big no no?
(if you've cheater a former partner, do you cheat in your subsequent relationships?)
Most Helpful Guy
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Cheating in past relationships is a deal breaker for me, and always has been.
Being so good at cheating that they were able to do it for FIVE YEARS behind their partners back? I'd run for the fucking hills!1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE
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Most Helpful Girl
Well I mean its hard, I would want to know the reasons right? Because it's not like he did it once, he did it for the first 5 years.. obviously wasn't right to get married. You can't just dismiss him, even the worst people need love to, but I wouldn't move fast i would take it very slow. My ex boyfriend to my knowledge hasn't cheated on his currently girlfriend even though he cheated a bunch on me, I was the perfect girlfriend but clearly was lacking something and he just was greedy. Now he's older and has changed (so I think I don't really know) some people just need time1THIS IS NOT RELEVANT ANYMORE