I was talking to my partner who I have been dating for a short time and I just found out he is against gay marriage. I am for gay marriage. I am opened minded enough to understand that everyone has a right to their own opinions and beliefs so I don't think any less of him. I'm trying to figure out why exactly he is against it out of curiosity, and in all honesty it is kind of a turn off for me. Like I'm bummed he doesn't feel the same way about it as I do. One thing I have learned about my past major relationship is compatibility deserves much more credit then it usually gets. My ex and I had nothing in common and it caused nothing but lots of fights and never having fun with eachother because we liked completely different things.
I really like this man and this is probably the first big disagreement we've had on something. But it's something I strongly believe in and I have friends who are gay. He does too... Which is why I'm confused he's apposed to it... But could this be a deal breaker? I don't want this to bite me in the ass down the road, but I wouldn't want to end it over something like this anyway. Thoughts?
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And that's why I put I don't think less of him. I understand he has the right, but sometimes beliefs can be a deal breaker.