What are your top three deal breakers?

Mine are:
1. Drugs
2. Disrespect
3. Bad teeth

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  • For marriage
    1. Dated a Black guy
    2. Non virgin
    3 Refuses to honour and obey me
    For dating and sex
    1. Not willing to put out
    2. won't suck me off
    3. Wants steady relationship

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    • Ummm.. wow.

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    • Poor woman. But, I guess they're around.

    • Not many can meet my high standards for marriage just ask my girlfriend on the side she wasn't a virgin when we met

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  • Aside all obvious deal breakers such as people that participate in illegal activities, outright mean people, people who lack basic hygiene habits, etc.

    1. Picky eaters. I've thought about this a lot and when I tell people I couldn't marry a picky eater they get so confused. However, being an adventurous eater who cooks all my meals for myself and likes to experiment, it would be really difficult living with someone picky. No hate for picky eaters, it just wouldn't work well in a relationship for me.
    2. Someone who lacks ambition. I'm a fairly ambitious person. I like to get things done quick and get as much as I can done. Someone who feels no need to keep gaining knowledge or has little amount of goals in their life is a complete turn off.
    3. Someone who is just outright rude to their mom. Or you know, their whole family in general. But especially their mom. If they're able to be rude and terrible to their mother, who knows how badly they can treat their girlfriend.

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    • By picky eaters what do you mean? Does that include people that have to eat a certain way like gluten free? I'm a vegan by choice does this make me a picky eater lol Also I hope this doesn't come off as rude because I'm genuinely curious.

    • Oh no, not people with food allergies or anthing. Just people that get grossed out easily by foods that aren't so common. I have friends that see the stuff I eat and are critical of it because they're so picky. I couldn't be with someone always saying things like, "ew you're going to eat that?". It would also be easier if they weren't picky because then I could cook food we both liked. I guess a better word would be to say non adventurous. I get that some picky people just cannot bring themselves to like many foods and that's okay, but what bothers me is when people won't even try new things and think you are weird for liking different stuff. I could date a vegan though, I wouldn't consider that unadventurous because it's more of a moral choice (usually).

    • I hate when people don't experiment with different foods. It's like, live life a little! Sheesh! I agree with you, that's annoying lol

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What Guys Said 31

  • 1. A girl that is doing anything that is illegal.
    2. A girl that smokes cigarettes or anything else.
    3. A girl with a poor personality and treats me badly. I don't have time for that shit.

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  • 1. Substance abuse, smoking, alcoholism, gambling and addictions. 2. Promiscuity and/or bisexuality (together = likely to stray with anyone). 3. Rudeness, arrogance, and games.

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  • 1.) Smoking
    2.) Bitchy behavior
    3.) Liking Justin Bieber

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  • Smokes cigarettes
    Poor humor
    "I don't suck dick"

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  • 1. Bad Hygiene
    2. Some type of addiction be it drugs or alcohol
    3. Untrustworthy

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  • 1. Shallow, closedminded, etc.
    2. Rudeness, meanness, and cruelty
    3. Won't communicate with me

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  • 1) Moody and rude
    2) Expects me to do everything for her and doesn't contribute the same as me.
    3) Doesn't express her emptions and expects me to guess what she is thinking.

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  • 1. Lack of respect
    2. Lack of dignity
    3. Lack of class

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  • Intolerance to people's sexuality, race and religion.

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  • 1. Unfaithfulness
    2. Hypocrisy
    3. Hates kids or doesn't want any

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  • drugs, playing hard to get like a high schooler, talking about exes and other guys a lot

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  • She:

    A. Has a dick
    B. Has multiple kids by multiple assholes
    C. she's a fake/ingenious person

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  • Deal breakers...

    1. Murderer
    2. Liar
    3. Hmmmm tbd

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  • 1. Complete cabbage head. (Super dumb)
    2. Slut (To some extent)
    3. Asian (Preference yeah?)

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  • 1. A girl that is doing anything illegal
    2. Girl that smokes
    3. A girl that has kids

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  • 1. Infidelity
    2. Disrespect
    3. Indifference

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  • Cheaters, Liars, Gold Diggers

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  • 1) cigarettes
    2) drugs
    3) poor hygiene

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  • 1) Ugly
    2) Being a bitch
    3) Prudishness

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  • 1. Clingy
    2. No sense of humor
    3. judgmental

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What Girls Said 38

  • 1. Super shy and passive
    2. Antagonistic, likes to argue/fight/doesn't know how to communicate
    3. Lazy, expects me to do everything emotionally, physically, etc.

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  • - No ambition. I feel like this just makes you a boring person overall if you never want to do anything or go anywhere. Makes holding a conversation with you difficult as well.

    - More emotions than me. I had a nightmare of an ex & they're unstable emotions about did me in.

    - No sense of humor/Never serious. I need someone who can laugh and be downright silly with me, but at the same time if I'm serious about something you need to be, too. Don't laugh or poke fun at me when I'm upset.

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  • 1. emotionally manipulative (tries to act a certain way to guilt trip you into doing something)
    2. disrespectful
    3. looks-oriented (obviously looks matter to some extent, but if it's the only thing that matters, then bye)

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  • 1. No sense of humor/is too serious
    2. Cannot hold a conversation
    3. Does not have any goals in life

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  • 1. Lie to me and you might need a plastic surgeon. (or more_
    2. He has to respect me and my opinions. Yes, I'm a Directioner. If you've got a problem with that, move along.
    3. I have to be attracted to the guy.

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  • - not doing anything with his life (i. e. not working or going to school).
    - isn't kind or respectful.
    - doesn't want kids at some point.

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  • 1. No motivation or goals for the future
    2. Disrespect
    3. Not passionate about life

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  • 1) A guy who smokes/drinks and sleeps around
    2) Non respectful in general ( verbally/physically/sexually...)
    3) If I don't find him Attractive
    4) + If he's bisexual.

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  • 1. Criminality
    2. Arrogance
    3. Untrustworthy based on his history

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  • 1 - abuse, verbal or physical
    2 - disagreement on having children
    3 - lazy or no job ( by no job I mean too lay to get one )

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  • 1. Has cheated
    2. If they eat a certain way ( it really grains on me nerves)
    3. bad feet. i literally threw up when i saw my dads feet when he took off his socks.

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    • You sound like you have a foot fetish.

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    • @asiag299 u can;t be serious well oops. i guess I'm the one with her mind in the gutter. but um the type where i can hear every squish and crunch or smacking or deep heavy breathes. i hate when i hear people breath will eating and swallowing

    • Ohh I hate that too like it isn't that hard to eat with your mouth closed bad table manners are definitely a deal breaker for me lol :)

  • Violent/Abusive/Controlling, Drugs/Smoker, Criminal Background

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  • 1. Fat and close to being obese (maybe you will call this as just fat)

    2. Too religious

    3. Emotionally weaker than i am

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  • 1. Close-minded
    2. Drugs/drinking/smoking
    3. Douchey

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  • 1) Shallow
    2) has a past of cheating
    3) Drugs (other than weed since some people assume that weed is a drug)

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  • 1. Any kind of bad addiction (drugs, alcohol, cigars)
    2. Impolite
    3. Bad hairstyle/ dyed hair

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  • 1. Smoking
    2. Devoutly religious
    3. Obsessed with being "manly"

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  • 1) Bad hygiene
    2) Clingy
    3) Still living with parents

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  • 1.) abusive/controlling
    2.) racist
    3.) bad hygiene

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  • 1. Lack of intelligence
    2. Poor hygiene
    3. Disrespectful/rude/etc

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