Again and again on here girls (and some guys) are ssaying that nice guys aren't actually nice.
Most Helpful Girl
Yeah I know many guys that are sweethearts and have a big heart. My husband is a great guy. I've also met assholes and charming assholes (fake good guys) but it's normally pretty easy to see the difference.
My first boyfriend believed he was a good guy. He wanted to marry me and live together. He was always doing sweet romantic things. But over the months he cheated on me a lot. Never acted any differently when he'd be with me. He also lied about big things and sometimes the smallest stupidest thing. He was a bad guy. A bad boyfriend. He was fake, but he didn't think so. He truly believed he was a catch and that he would make a great husband one day. Pft. There are good and bad apples. Same if it were women.0
Most Helpful Guy
There's a difference between being a nice guy and a "nice guy".
A guy who is a decent person and is genuinely a nice person is a nice guy.
But that's drowned out by the "niceguys" who are just douchebags mad that they can't get a girl. And by "girl" I mean a girl who is at least 8/10, because that's what they're really mad about. A "niceguy" is just a guy who plays the victim card but refuses to date anyone he doesn't deem as hot.8