Hi everyone, sorry for the long post. But I am in a very difficult situation with my guy best friend.
Lets get to the point: I have very strong feelings for him. And I want to tell him/ask him out but I don't know how.
Here is our story:
we met a few months ago and instantly became friends. We would text/snapchat all the time. Over the summer we got even closer. We went to the bars a lot and most times ended with us being super flirty and touchy. Now, we still seem to text all the time and continue conversations throughout days. We do weird couple like things together; including over the summer we went to movies and baseball games. And more recently, shopping just the two of us. We drive everywhere together and everyone always asks/jokes about us being together. He's a very shy and awkward person, meaning that he gets uncomfortable in a lot of situations.
I'm not sure whether to tell him how I feel or not. I don't know if it'll ruin the friendship. If you feel I should tell him, how should I do it? Over texting or in person? Keeping in mind how shy of a person he is. I don't want to ruin what we have, but I can't keep this secret anymore. It's taking up all of my mental energy.
Most Helpful Guy
This is a problem I'd love to have.
He's into you. He's making those jokes because he wants to bring it up but is too shy, and hopes you take the hint. If he's shy, he's going to have trouble bringing it up or making a move.
Basically, any way you bring it up is going to work. Have fun with it. I'm trying to think of the way I'd most want it to be brought up if I were him and I feel like telling him in person would almost be less exciting. You're going to be nervous and you're going to put him on the spot. If you send him a text saying something like "I have to tell you something," then when he responds say "I'm in love with you," his heart will stop and he'll get to imagine you saying it exactly the way he wants without having to worry that your nervousness will make it awkward. You could also go drinking with him one night, take him back to your place, and just kiss him or touch him in some way. But I think you'd have to try pretty hard to mess this up.0
Most Helpful Girl
text him ! Or a simple sheet of paper that says: I LIKE LIKE LIKE LIKE YOU! Do you like me? Yes!!! or no! and that way he isn't freakin out because its in writing... lol i mean thats what I would do!0