Most Helpful Guy
"Should I be concerned? Is there any way to fix this? I really like him. "
I'm really glad you stuck to your values and just remember, if you guys are a match things will just roll along.
Try not to dwell, recount or feel that you've "messed" up some how. I know many of us do this especially when we like someone who doesn't seem to have the same interest in us.
"He is about 5 years older than me"
Just a little cup of insight from me:
Personally, sometimes i've dated someone too young for me. I'm 29 and i've dated 21 and the whole time i thought "this would be so perfect if i were 21-24 range" but the whole time there was an experience gap between us. Now if she was a party type girl, maybe i'll stick around to try to get some however.. she was a "good" girl with values.
- I notced that she was very into me however my intuition says that this will end up no good. So i backed off.. without much explanation as even thought the date went well... just wasn't going to work.
live and learn!
Most Helpful Girl
If he became disinterested because you wouldn't sleep wit him on the first date then there is something majorly wrong. Then he was really just after sex...
If I were you I would go on as usual and not change your behavior. If he still seems disinterested then call him out on it and ask what changed between your date and you saying you aren't ready to have sex yet.