How annoying is the fade out?

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I just had a guy fade on me after three dates (been two weeks and nothing) and I get it. But seriously... how annoying is it! He was my favourite out of the guys I'm accepting dates with.

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That might be your problem, he might have realized he was being compared and contrasted with other males in a box ticking exercise so he said you know what fuck this shit I'm out and I don't think she really deserves an explanation.
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- Codex22
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  No I don't really talk about comparing people or other dates at all. We always had fun. I keep things pretty casual in the beginning. He said he doesn't know where his head is at.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  You never know sometimes you can pick up a vibe off girls like you know they're "dating". Some guys don't mind that but others don't like feeling like a candidate.
  
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- Opinion Owner
  
  Thanks for MH! ahah
  
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- Codex22
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  No problem :)
  
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JonnyLost
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did anything happen on your last date that you can remember that might have put him off?
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- Codex22
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  We've been talking for a month and after getting more intimate he said he doesn't know where his head is at.
  
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- JonnyLost
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  more intimate as in conversation and getting to know each other or physically?
  
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- Codex22
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  Both ways. Our conversation got deeper and physically.
  
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- JonnyLost
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  so after the first time hooking up he faded away?
  
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Unoriginaleveryday
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You've answered your own question "he doesn't know where his head is at".
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- Codex22
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  That wasn't my question. I didn't say why! I say isn't it annoying lol
  
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- Unoriginaleveryday
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  Yes it's annoying but then did you expect anything else from him? You're seeing more guys so I would focus on them.
  
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