Shall I carry on making a effort or leave him be? why are guys so confusing ha?
What Guys Said 2
I can see how you might be confused by his actions. The foundation of all relationships is communication. Since you are really feeling like no clear signs are available to you, I'd be honest with him and ask what his intentions are between you and him. Nothing will satisfy your question like a direct answer to that question. Any other way of satisfying your question will still leave the "what if" scenerio open and you wondering if you interpreted the "sign" correctly. Be honest, tell him you like him and would like to pursue a relationship, and how does he feel? If he's too wishy washy about answering then maybe you should evaluate weather or not he fits into "your type". The kind of guy you want to be with.
I'm not entirely clear on what you meant by "serious", or "wanting something more," but it seems like you want him to contribute more to the relationship (i. e. Plan/organize dates, surprise you with romance, etc).
He may be taking a step back since, until now, you've been planning most of the dates. Lots of men are like flowing water, we tend enjoy to taking the path of least resistence, so you may actually be encouraging his laid back attitude.
My best advice is to voice your concerns to him in a clear and concise manner (the more specific, the better) and then take a step back and see what he does. Do not use mindgames like stopping communication. Be straight with him. Passive-aggressiveness rarely solves any problems, in my opinion.
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