I know this is a long read, but I really really would appreciate some advice on this.
I've read up on a few articles across the internet but I can't come to a conclusion on what I think about this. To summarize our troubles in our relationship and why she said this is basically this:
About 3 months into the relationship I was getting a weird vibe from her; she had cancelled plans to hang out one Friday and claimed she was going to hang out with her friend and see her friend's Aunt in the hospital. She ended up calling me that Friday and asking to come hang out with me instead; and the next day I read her texts and found out that she had cancelled because she made plans to meet up with some guy that she had a crush on all of last semester at college. She said she was 50/50 on the fence between me and this other guy, and that if she was there she would decide right away (him). I confronted her about this and talked to her, she lied to me at first but then admitted everything. I was her second choice that day.
Fast forward a few weeks, we get into small arguments such as her not showing her affection because of personnal problems, her not posting me on social media, etc. She invited me to a party and then decided to uninvite me because she wanted to just be with her friends. She stated that she was going to be drinking and that she was going to stay the night at the party. I expressed that this was not normal and how it upset me we ended up fighting over it for a few days, and last minute she decided to come to a different party with me instead.
Now just recently, I found that she had liked 2 pictures the other guy had posted on instagram just 2 weeks ago. ( We are 5 months into dating now). It was a picture of him and his grandmother who passed away and a picture of him as a child. She had told me that she cut him off completely, and liking his photos on instagram is not cutting the other person off, it's calling out for attention.
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I wouldve broke up with her in a heartbeat thats me because I have high standards.
·She lied to you
·She parties and drinks
·She put another guy between your relationship
Im not saying break up with her but use your brain to analyze the situation before you say or do anything.
Now likeing someones picture doesn't mean anything significant and stalking her profile means you have low self-esteem.
The key to every relationship is trust if none of you have it then its best to move on...1