I enjoy the company of women and such, and recently came here to give advice because I am good in all phases in relationships.
Its just romantically, I don't really invest into it. My girlfriend before this broke up with my because she thought it was strange that I only ever wanted to pleasure her, but never wanted any satisfaction of my own and thought I wasn't normal.
Since this last time, I don't really go out with girls anymore. I just had a third date with someone and she asked me why I haven't kissed her or invited her to my place yet.
Frankly, its not that im not sure what to do - I just don't really want to keep going through this, nor do I actually understand if there is something wrong here.
This is the reason I've created this account even though I gave so much advice yesterday.
To be quite honest, didn't really know how to word this. Any sort of help would be good, thank you.
- Yes, this is normal.
- No man... this isn't normal.
- I don't even know
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I wouldn't say it's common, but that doesn't make something abnormal or wrong. I also wouldn't consider you necessarily asexual, as they tend to not partake in sexual activity. You could be bordering asexuality, perhaps.
It seems to me that you are suffering from the natural hesitations that come from dealing with a failed relationship.
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