So I've known this guy for about 5 months. I met him through his older brother I know who's friends eith my sister. Anyways. He asked me out on a date and from then we've talked ever since. He's admitted he really likes me and said to me we'll see what happens. Then we were talking about dating and I asked 'are you the relationship type' he said that he wasn't when he was younger but he's now closer to wanting a relationship. About a few months later which was October this year he then said he doesn't want anything serious because he's scared if we date he'd mess up the relationship and we wouldn't speak again. He's opened up to me and said that it scares him to talk about his feelings and he hasn't had a girlfriend for over 5 years. He has said to me he does really like me and loves spending time with me. We still speak as normal and still asks to see me. I just dunno what I should do. We were friends before any feelings were involved. I get along with him so well and we haven't argued or have resentment against each other. I would like some advice if I should try build more of a friendship with him or walk away?
Most Helpful Guy
in my opinion this guy probably went through a rough relationship and is gun shy... keep him around, don't push for anything, and see where things go.
But at the same time... be open to dating other guys!0
Most Helpful Girl
You really can't force him... you can try to keep bug him... until he give you another chance... but i wouldn't... your selling yourself short.0