My first boyfriend was 26 when I was 14 and he treated me so well, it was amazing. But we broke up last year and he moved to another state. he still texts me but he's married now.
Is it wrong to want an older boyfriend th 28-40? I work at mcdonalds and there are a few guys this age range that are interested in me. i want to pursue them.
Most Helpful Guy
Well your question is somewhat controversial, but I will try to answer it the best I can. So as for you liking older men, that isn't something you can control. Your brain is sending signals and releasing chemicals in your body, causing you to feel that attraction. So when you ask is it wrong for you to be attracted to older guys, I would say no. The reason is that you cannot control who you are attracted to. Now your mom thinking something is wrong, is a different story. In her eyes, you are her child and was with someone 12 years older than you. He was 12 when you were born. She will look at that with disgust, and so will most people. Actually, if you're mom or anyone who knew that you were dating a 26 year old when you were 14 they could have filed a statutory rape against him. Since she almost had him arrested, it sounds like she tried to do just that. People stop worrying about the age difference once they get older. What would be considered wrong for a 14 year old and a 26 year old to be dating, if you were 26 and the guy 38, they wouldn't think too much of it. It's all based on perception. So to answer your question about it being wrong to want an older boyfriend? No, it's not. You have the right to choose who you want to be with. You seem to want someone more mature that acts like an adult, because childish actions is a turn off for you. Most people will look down on you, but the thing you need to remember, is that you deserve to be happy. So do what makes you happy.
Most Helpful Girl
Okay so you want someone to care about you and you want to care about them right? Well if you date someone that much older than you and the police find out about it, they will go to jail. Do you want someone to go to jail? Is that something you do to someone you care about?
You should also ask your mother for therapy since "she thinks there is something wrong" .
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