Hi, I'm a 24 y/o female, and several of my friends have recently gotten married. I've never been kissed or been on a date, and I'm still a virgin. I've only been asked out twice. I have been told by some people I'm pretty, but I never feel like I am. My family is from Pakistan, so I have brown skin, boring brown eyes, and dark brown hair - nothing special to men... not the blonde hair, blue-eyed ideal.. A few photo links are below.
My friends are all lucky and they found great guys who love them. I get so embarrassed that I'm not engaged or have even heard a rumor about a guy liking me. They got diamond jewelry from their husbands and their husbands love them a lot. I get jealous... I'm not nearly as pretty as my friends are, and I don't know if I'll ever be loved the same way they are loved. I wonder what it would be like to be loved the same way they are, to be held and kissed. I wish so badly there was someone I could talk to, but I feel so lonely.
It hurts so much when I see other people be so happy and in love, in real life or even in movies because I can't relate to it at all and I worry I never will. I cry about this a lot. I wish I was beautiful on the outside, and I wish there was someone I could talk to about this because it's too embarrassing to talk to with my friends.
Is there someone who is willing to talk to me through email or private message about this? Can someone provide me with some support or empathize with me? Anything at all will be helpful. I feel like a failure, lonely, and ashamed of myself. Thank you for reading.
Most Helpful Guy
Well... I saw your pictures, and read the description as well. You are VERY pretty.
The only reason I can think of, for you being single - Most guys are intimidated by your looks, so they assume that you either already have a boyfriend, or would reject them anyway for not being up to your level in terms of looks.
You are most welcome to message me on here. :)1
Most Helpful Girl
You are gorgeous, inside and out. Some guys fall for brown eyes too. You don't need to be blonde with blue eyes, you just need to be yourself and you will find your man.1