I've suffered from PPD since I had my daughter and I don't know if this is his way of lightening the mood or not but it just seems that he enjoys it when I have an attitude (as he only does this when I'm already having a bad day).
I work 4am to 2pm 5-6 days a week so I'm almost always tired. However, I won't go to bed until around 10-10:30 every night so that we can relax together. But the minute I say I'm going to bed he will make remarks like "Really, you're going to bed now?" Or "Why don't you ever hang out with me?" Even though I am with him from the time I get out of work until I go to work the next morning.
When I bring these things up to him and tell him that it makes me uncomfortable and really gets under my skin, he will tell me I'm being oversensitive and that I just need to "relax".
We have been together for almost five years though and he only ever does this stuff to me when he knows I'm already in a bad mood. Does he mean well? Or is he only doing this because he thinks I'm "cute" when I'm mad?
Most Helpful Guy
He's doing it because he's a dick1
Most Helpful Girl
He's immature, but a lot of guys like to play with their girls when they are mad, they think it's sexy...1