I am going to write a take about this. So have you dated someone who is a major downgrade to what you are used to just because you are pressured to 'give someone a chance? ' and to not have high expectations?
I have. And this is what happened:
- he kept borrowing money off of me and never giving it back
- was selfish
- never spoiled me once.
- i had to pay for everything every time I went out.
Basically, I was the man.
I will never date losers again.
So tell me, have you dated someone who was a trifling ass?
Most Helpful Guy
I never had because I never felt the pressure to give someone a chance. If she didn't cut it, she didn't cut it.4
Most Helpful Girl
wow he was a huuuge waste of your time. i havee dated someone below my usual standards before, and he was almost as big of a loser as this guy. he claimed he had 3 jobs but then he actually tried to ask me to pay for him before. i literally laughed. i dont expect a guy to pay for me i can pay for myself, but dont expect me to pay for you especially after constantly bragging about having 3 jobs. ridiculous. his idea of a date was going to a fast food restaurant, and he tried to have sex in a bathroom! i was just dooooone. needless to say, this relationship didn't last long at all.1