Most Helpful Guy
""he called me a c*nt, a bitch, and a whore. hess kicked me when i was down, but me in a hold to make me feel like i couldnt breathe and has called me out on anything that did not reach his standards. [...] and threw glass items at me [...] say things like stop being a waste of space, or threaten tobreak my leg, or kill/sell my dog""
Yes, yes it is. Why on earth are you still there?
Most Helpful Girl
You can only help yourself by leaving. He won't change and I'm pretty sure you know this is highly abusive. Just because he was abused in the past it doesn't mean he gets a free pass to essentially murder you. Leave.