What would YOU do if you were single, couldn't find someone you really wanted to be with, but really wanted to have kids?
Would you stay single and keep searching for "Mr/Miss. Right" even though you risk never ever meeting him/her and ending up single forever with no kids/family (or finding him/her when it's too late to have kids) - or would you settle with someone who is a good person, but who you do NOT love and are NOT attracted to? Or would you do something else, if so what?
No matter what your life looks like in real life, imagine that you were in the situation described above when you answer this question. So for example:
If you already have kids - imagine you didn't.
If you don't want kids - imagine you really did.
If you're not single - Imagine you were.
and so on.