My girlfriend wants kids, but I am not ready for this. I want to live life, travel, buy some luxuries (like ps4 and apple watch), and to hang with friends before they settle down. But, my girlfriend is against this, and will not let me have a ps4 (or Xbox one/wiiU). She is also against me hanging with my friends, and always snoops on my fb (i do not hide anything from her). What do I do?
I had to sneak in some consoles and play them when my girlfriend is at work/asleep. I also have to sneak out to hang with friends.
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I don't necessarily think it's a bad thing that you don't want kids, but if you know that you never want to have children, then it's bad to continue the relationship. If you're just not ready yet, then you need to stand up for yourself. Remind her that you need a social life that doesn't involve her, that it's not healthy to not be able to be with friends, and that you can still put money towards having a child but that you're both still very young. You have plenty of time. It's best to buy luxuries now than to leave it til when you can't afford it.2