i don't know what to do. He's really wonderful, respectful, sweet, cool, but just not cute. I don't need the absolute most gorgeous person ever. I'm not perfect, I don't need perfect. But he's not cute.
Can anyone help me? I don't know what to do...
Most Helpful Guy
You need to establish and let him know upfront that you just want to be friends with him.
Most Helpful Girl
maybe you should be mention that he looked really good when he shaved and didn't have a man bun. but dont say it like that just say you saw a picture of him like that and that he looked really good in it! and maybe playfully ask why he doesn't choose to look like that anymore. but make sure you sound lighthearted as to not offend but if he doesn't change and you still dont find him attractive maybe it wasn't meant to be. now im not trying to sound shallow or anything but i thing attraction is a big part of a romantic relationship. not like someone has to be good looking to be attractive. i had a guy EXACTLY like that. i could tell him anything and i was super comfortable with him but he is by no means good looking but i used to find him so attractive just because when you get to know someone and you really like their personality their whole thing suddenly gets way more attractive. i think its in their mannerisms or the little things about them that are attractive or maybe the things they are able to do. then after a while he changed and i changed and were still really close but we aren't into each other any longer. It just wasn't meant to be. i think he may just be a really good friend who happens to be a guy