Every single girl I know is going out with those stupid asshole guys who just cheat on them constantly, and the girls KEEP going back to them. Girls, what's wrong with you these days? I love guys who are more "cute" than "hot", who is average or really good in school, who is close with his family, and overall is just a sweetheart...am I being too picky or something?
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Women don't like nice guys. Nice guys are thought of as pussies who can't "protect" themselves or their potential lovers. In addition, women think that the best men are tall, handsome, race-specific, athletic, rich, tough with men but kind to women, confident and so on. The problem is that more often than not, personality is overlooked in preference to physical attraction and material wealth. Once a young woman realizes that they should judge a man by personality first, it's too late! By the time a woman discovers this reality, the emotional damage from dating a jerk is too late and quite often has a disliking for men in general(Are there any good men out there?). Finally, women like a challenge. Nice guys are too easy to catch while the macho tough guys are not so easy and have other women to choose from. Thus the reason why some guys are surrounded by a dozen women while the rest of the guys are off somewhere else drinking their miserable lives away wondering why nobody wants them. Sad. This explains why billions of women are always saying, "Nice Guy But Not My Type". Go figure.
In truth, nice guys are men who has patience, doesn't lose their temper over the small stufff, can easily take charge of a situation when needed and doesn't fight unless absolutely necessary. They value your opinion and go out of their way to make you happy, and are less likely to cheat because they value loyalty. The problem is that MOST nice guys are lacking in some requirement that women have in order to gain their interests such as too short, not race-specific and so forth.
Having expectations is acceptable but men/women should recognize what is truly important in their assessment of a potential mate. The height of a man nor the bra size of a woman is the correct why to choose a person's quality. Sadly, we are human and this dating problem will never go away.
Hope this helps, hope I also get "Best Answer"...heheh5
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