Who to choose between guy best friend who's always liked you and crush who's showing signs of strong interest?
I haven't seen my best friend in months, but he invited me over for Thanksgiving. I have asked about it on GaG and all the answers I got told me that yes, he likes me and that I should go for it if I feel the same. The only thing that holds me back is that I feel very strongly attracted to a classmate and I'm acting on it. He seems to be feeling the same too because of some "signs" of interest he's shown so far. I don't want ever want to have to choose. I love my best friend because we've had a great friendship so far and the fact that he invites ME to spend Thanksgiving with him and his family is a big deal for me. I'm also gonna stay the whole break with him, so I don't know how things will go. But on another hand, I really like my crush too even though we aren't that close and we're getting to know each other better as days go. I want to see who's gonna come and "get" me first, how things go with both, etc before making a choice. I'm not sure that it's the best thing to do.. so I need your advice! What should I do? If you need details on both relationships, let me know!
This is the truth for me, how about you? Are you ever sad when a great date ends, or are you happy? If a guy never expressed his intention to be exclusive why would he get angry? Are women who do not want kids a deal breaker? How many women & men here dont want kids? Have you ever been totally surprised in a positive way from a date?
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