Would you date a girl your height?

Question

I've met this guy that I really like and I think he likes me too, we have a great chemistry but we're the same height? It bothers me a tiny little bit but I think I can overlook it, but I'm not sure if he can? Guys what are your opinions? Would you mind dating a girl the same height as yours or maybe like 1-2 inches shorter than you?

Answer 1

GoodDogNigel | 240 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

Think of it this way. You're perfect guy is probably a few inches taller than you, right?

Well, my perfect girl is a few inches shorter than I am.

Would I still date someone my height? Most certainly, it's like how I'd date a girl with rather small breasts. I prefer larger ones, but it won't bother me none.

Answer 2

Mesonfielde | 2.7K opinions shared on Dating topic.

Master

That used to be my primary preference, I don't see why not. I am 5'7". It is usually the girls who aren't willing to date a guy who is the same height because they claim it makes them "feel less of a woman" which is just an indicator of their identity being defined by internalized sexism.

Asker

+1 y
I disagree, i think its mostly men who normally feel "less of a man" when dating girls close to their height or even their own height... But yea i dont know lol
Mesonfielde

+1 y
Clearly we're saying the exact same thing from the two opposite sides.

All I know is that I had a classmate who used to claim that she "wants a guy who is taller than her even if she is wearing high heels", and that I was in a "relationship" with a girl when I was 17-18 who was the same height as I am and it makes making out extremely convenient.
Asker

+1 y
Ok you don't feel like less of a man because the girl is your own height?
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Mesonfielde

+1 y
I am not even sure what "feeling like a man" even means, I am secure in the knowledge of the fact that I have a dong between my legs and that is all I need to know for that, lol

Answer 3

Asker

I disagree, i think its mostly men who normally feel "less of a man" when dating girls close to their height or even their own height... But yea i dont know lol

Answer 4

Mesonfielde

Clearly we're saying the exact same thing from the two opposite sides.

All I know is that I had a classmate who used to claim that she "wants a guy who is taller than her even if she is wearing high heels", and that I was in a "relationship" with a girl when I was 17-18 who was the same height as I am and it makes making out extremely convenient.

Answer 5

Asker

Ok you don't feel like less of a man because the girl is your own height?

Answer 6

Mesonfielde

I am not even sure what "feeling like a man" even means, I am secure in the knowledge of the fact that I have a dong between my legs and that is all I need to know for that, lol

Answer 7

XDreamCatcherX

Xper 2

My crush is shorter than me :(
Consider this you can never lay your head on his chest when you hug. But I think guys like tall girls so I don't know

Answer 8

klee___x

Xper 5

I don't think it's a problem untill you want to wear goddamn heals!

Asker

+1 y
Aghhh i know!!! Cons of being a tall girl

Answer 9

Asker

Aghhh i know!!! Cons of being a tall girl

Answer 10

Prilee1992 | 810 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I'm not caring so much about weight. But I prefer chubby girls. So you're good to go if you don't worry that much.

Answer 11

blue_sun

Xper 5

Yeah, sure! I'm 6'0", and the girl that I have a crush on is 5'4", but I'm not terribly discriminating here.

Answer 12

Maverickj | 323 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 6

Sure, why not? I don't care about height at all, and I don't understand why people think it's necessary for the guy to be taller than the girl.

Answer 13

Shyguy_1988 | 233 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

Yes I would. I'm 5'10" so I wouldn't mind that at all.

Answer 14

WilliamWinslow | 420 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Yoda

I am 5'11" and I prefer a girl who is shorter than me, but height is really not very important for me; my current girlfriend is 6'0".

Answer 15

PatriotGM

Xper 2

I'm short myself most women just flat out reject me because of my height (I'm 5'6"), but to answer your question. Yes, I would date someone who is the same height as me.

Answer 16

adamski24

Master

Yes I would why not?
As long as her heels aren't to high

Answer 17

Anonymous

i don't think so. i'd feel awkward especially when she wears heels

Answer 18

nightskycat

Xper 5

I wouldn't mind at all.

Answer 19

tashasei | 195 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 5

I think most guys would.

Answer 20

zombiebabe

Master

no i won't... cause am not into girls

Answer 21

Krillanr | 184 opinions shared on Dating topic.

Xper 7

It wouldn't bother me.

Answer 22

alfonsosloan45

Xper 7

YES, I WOULD. What if you wore heels?

Answer 23

skullly

Yoda

Nevbberrrr

Answer 24

ShayanMortazavi1

Xper 7

Yes definetley

Answer 25

1ydal3

Xper 3

yeah why not

Answer 26

Anonymous

Yes, I would :)

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