Did I come off as too brisk? What's the next step?

The other week I went on a wonderful date with a guy I had made out with at a party. I was so comfortable around him and had such a good time, I was really looking forward to hearing from him again. Unfortunately, he texted me the next day saying he wasn't 'in a good place to be in a relationship' and felt bad but wants to be friends-- and I said something along the lines of 'thanks for telling me instead of dragging this out'.
is he just trying to turn me down nicely or should I express interest still but not openly pursue like before? Was I too brisk in my text? I haven't texted him since and have been trying to decide if I should apologize or not, or what to even talk about now since I still really like him.


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