So lastnight my girlfriends phone received a message from her ex boyfriend apologising, she was asleep so i opened the message up and found out something that i really didn't want to know!
The message revealed thar she slept with her ex boyfriend at a party, the party was about 2 months after we started dating. We have been dating now for 4/5 months.
I also found out that she goes to her ex boyfriend with problems over me, she rang him at 6am to talk about her mum being ill. He asked on the message why she was going to him and not her new boyfriend. She said because its you, i wanted to talk to you.
She is ment to be going down to her ex boyfriend in a few weeks to give him his guitar back, he asked her to stay the weekend on message and she said i really dont think it would be fair on my boyfriend to stay at my ex'es house for a day nevermind a weekend.
I haven't confronted her about it and im really fucking upset about it because i genuinly love her! I always wanted to be with this girl when i was in school but never got the chance then 4 years later she adds me on facebook and we started dating so as you can imagine im really pissed about this.
She's told me that she loves me but she really never shows emotion towards me about our relationship.
What do you all think?
Most Helpful Girl
She is still lingering around her ex boyfriend which means she hasn't really moved on from him. If she still needs to talk to him at times such as 6am and slept with him before, there seems like they have some unfinished business with each other.0
Most Helpful Guy
Well, dating to me doesn't mean the two of you were in an exclusive relationship so if she's dating you and fucking her ex I don't know she's doing anything wrong even if you don't like it. She is minding boundaries so I'm not sure I see anything for you to go with here based on what you are saying.0